當男女戀愛達到某個階段，自然會走向同居生活，那么，在他們真正共享一張床鋪時，如果男生說“只蹭蹭不進去”，你能信任他嗎？有句話這么說：“寧愿相信世界上有鬼，也不要相信男人那張破嘴。”因此，這個問題的答案顯而易見。當一個自稱“只蹭蹭不進去”的男人說話，似乎他能夠控制得住自己，但過來人都知道，在這種情況下，大多數男人是無力自制的。畢竟，這時候他們處于欲罷不能的境地，所以，當男人說出這句話時，你就可以視為是在開玩笑了，因為最終，他還是會進入你的身邊。那他這樣說的目的是什么呢？其實，只是為了讓你認為他是個好男人，或是假裝尊重你，而實際上已經掌握了主導權。對女性來說，要做好心理準備。male saying only rub against you but not entering is also an attempt to make themselves seem civilized and not savage, as if their needs are few and easily satisfied. But we all know what they're really thinking; it's also a tactic for men to buffer, as they think that going in too quickly would be unnatural and sudden, so they use this tactic as a buffer. Ultimately, the goal is clear to everyone involved. Therefore, here's a warning to women: don't believe a man when he says "only rub against you but doesn't enter." If you believe his lies, then you must be naive or foolish.