當(dāng)我們想要和陌生妹子聊天的時(shí)候，可以采取以下方法：1、搭訕，挖掘共同點(diǎn)；2、“不經(jīng)意間”讓對(duì)方“發(fā)現(xiàn)”你的金錢、地位、品味，震撼的程度讓人愛不釋手；3、 “善意的謊言”，無論你怎么吹，都要讓對(duì)方感到真誠和真實(shí)；4、真誠最重要，最好不要說謊。
聊天在別人眼里可能是一個(gè)極其困難和復(fù)雜的行為。但在我眼里，這真的是一件輕松簡單的事情。相信“怎樣聊天才能讓女人愛上我”這個(gè)問題，一定是還在感情路上掙扎的朋友們最想知道的答案。我現(xiàn)在正在系統(tǒng)地教你如何聊天。
我需要和一個(gè)女孩說些什么才能讓一個(gè)女人愛上我？ 我相信這個(gè)問題一定是所有還在情感上掙扎的朋友最想知道的答案。事實(shí)上，聊天對(duì)我來說是最簡單的問題。我曾經(jīng)和很多人聊天，直到我熬夜。在別人看來，聊天是一種極其困難和復(fù)雜的行為。但在我眼里，這真的是一件輕松簡單的事情。我現(xiàn)在正在系統(tǒng)地教大家如何 chats.
看著這篇文章，你將擁有以下能力：1、不要害怕和女孩 chat. 2、有能力 and girl chat 而不冷. 3、高情商，不肉麻地表白給陌生妹子的能力。 廢話不多說，讓我們直接進(jìn)入主題…… 重點(diǎn)：是什么阻礙了你 and girl chat? 讓我們回想一下，在嘗試與girl chat 的過程中，是什么阻礙了我們與girl 的順暢chat? 因?yàn)槟悴粫?huì)說話？絕對(duì)不是，我相信你一定有過 and friend chat得 天花亂墜 的經(jīng)歷。因?yàn)槟愫π吆π撸縄個(gè)人 不這么認(rèn)為，因?yàn)镮知道，在you哥們面前，你的一張臉皮有時(shí)候會(huì)比城墻還厚。那麼，是什么真正阻礙了我們與girl chat呢？
設(shè)問：
你認(rèn)為自己缺乏與女孩子chat經(jīng)驗(yàn)嗎？
當(dāng)你嘗試與女孩子chat時(shí)，你是否常常會(huì)遇到這樣的問題：“如果我這么說，我會(huì)不會(huì)讓女生對(duì)我產(chǎn)生壞印象？”
或者：“這樣的話題夠好笑嗎？”
原因很簡單。我把原因分為兩類：
第一類：你受皮卡文化束縛。如果you讀過《傲慢幽默法則》，或者you早就收集了慣例，或許say的話，那么大多數(shù)時(shí)候，在with girl chating 過程中，你chating 的重點(diǎn)都是圍繞著“有趣”來and girl chating。一旦you覺得你的answer不好，或許不能let girl覺得有趣，有趣，那么you就會(huì)內(nèi)心感到沮喪。
第二類：根本不知道跟girl say what？
以上兩種區(qū)別在于：
第一種哥們，在chating 過程中走錯(cuò)了方向。所以，對(duì)于這種類型的人，即使他們and more girls chating，他們也無法獲得更多成長，因?yàn)樗麄冏咤e(cuò)了方向。
第二類好友還沒有進(jìn)入chating 過程。這群學(xué)生只要找到正確學(xué)習(xí)方向，就能快速掌握chating 技巧。
接下來，我們將逐步學(xué)習(xí)三個(gè)不同的階段：
第一階段——可以and girl chate.
注意1: 無論如何，不要let girl討厭。
注意2: 不以撿拾為終極目標(biāo)，只以chate 為終極目標(biāo)。
訓(xùn)練后的結(jié)果：不怕follow-up with a new person, have the ability to follow up with a new person.
培訓(xùn)內(nèi)容： 和 ten strangers talk in this process, you need to do is simple conversation with them, treat them as ordinary friends, very simple conversations without any purpose or intention.
The reason why we beginners don't know how to talk to girls is that we have a strange purpose and ambition. So when we start caring about it, we will try to please the girls by flattery or other means of attention-seeking behavior which are not suitable for talking with your girlfriend during the chatting process.
Now let's see how you can talk to someone at the first stage:
錯(cuò)誤示例 A: "Beautiful lady, would you like us to have a conversation?" (This question makes target feel that you're seeking value from her.)
B: "What do you do?"
技術(shù)分析:
A:"You seem cute so I said hello."
B:"Your photo made me think you're an interesting woman."
C: "Just woke up... The weather outside is great! How about you? Do you feel today's beauty?"
At this point, your mind should undergo such transformation:
"Even if I don't understand this goal, pure practice is okay."
When there's no fear of silence anymore and understanding providing topics becomes natural,
then congratulations! You've reached the second stage!
In chatting at this level,
show off your character by discussing family responsibilities,
friendships,
past relationships,
or even business ventures!
As long as they're true stories about yourself.
Here are two examples:
Case One:
"I used to be close friends with someone who founded a studio together.
He had some issues at home but donated money then disappeared for three months before his family faced problems."
"We met again accidentally in another social gathering...
Instead of blaming him directly..."
"I felt responsible since early on..."
Case Two:
"In 2008 our business failed almost completely...
That year I worked three jobs from morning till night...
Then bought bread after work near my apartment market before rushing off for beer...
My only thought was finishing debt payments & helping parents buy houses... Last year I completed that task...
Thank God!"
By sharing these experiences honestly without exaggeration or lies,
your sincerity shines through making others trustable while increasing their affection towards you!
So here concludes our lesson on high-emotion non-cheesy pickup lines shared online!
Remember—Always Be Yourself!
